Internet dating for shy people

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I believe the answer to this question really depends on the severity of the shyness.

Due to this, I’ll discuss different degrees of shyness and then give my opinion on what should be included in the dating profile given the degree of shyness. There are social rules that men are expected to follow that makes being a shy man detrimental whereas being a shy woman, even to a great degree, has little or no affect on the chances for that woman to date or marry (see Dr. If you’re a shy woman and you want to list being so in your dating profile, that’s fine.

I used to have a friend who’d say, “Dating is nothing but a numbers game.” She believed that going on more dates was equivalent to a higher likelihood of falling in love. However well-intentioned it may be, it flies in the face of a major factor essential to an introvert’s well-being—alone time. So yes, you will have times when sitting across from another human being, you’ll feel you’d rather pull out your molars without Novocaine than think of another word to say to this person. I feared if I declined, I would be passing up on a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. You will have days when unexpected issues arise at work, your cat gets sick, a family member calls with an emergency, or a friend emails with the last-minute favor to which you have to say yes because they helped you out last week.

It might sound pretty reasonable when you first hear it except for the fact that it’s utter bullshit. It took me years of dating before I finally started ignoring this type of “practical” advice. For introverts, first dates are minefields of small talk and mindless chatter. if a tree falls in the forest and there’s no one to hear it, would this date be just as bad? As a result, I spent the following weekend on the couch, exhausted, spiraling down the rabbit hole of a bad television binge, barely able to peek around the door when the delivery guy dropped off my take-out. If you have a date scheduled that evening and you just can’t go, so be it.

And proximity without talking is THE DREAM, you guys. And yes, dates are the necessary vehicle that will get you to this connection.For those of you who pay more attention to the physical appearance, you will appreciate our list of 15 Countries with the Ugliest Women in the World.Online dating has done wonders for introverts, that’s for sure. It was never easier to find a person with whom you share same interests and feel a mutual attraction.But it can’t be a numbers game when only one date can be a game changer.You have to go on dates, just not every single one.

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